Wednesday, October 9, 2013

Kathmandu's Biggest Secret

It was a hot, sunny day in the city, like many days here, making a short walk feel like an hour in the sauna. Stephen had read about this mystical garden escape in the center of Kathmandu called “the Garden of Dreams” in a guidebook and we were determined to find it. He had also heard of a restaurant nearby the garden that had dal bhat for only something like 60 rupees, practically unheard of in Thamel. We decided we needed an escape from the city and its crowded streets and went on a mission to find this fanciful dreamland. We set off down the streets of Thamel, guided towards our destination by the directions of rickshaw drivers and street peddlers. Upon finding it we decided to go get lunch then come back, diving head first into the crowded tourist shopping district of Thamel.

            We eventually found the restaurant, nestled in above the shops, only a few of its many tables inhabited by foreign tourists. We were disappointed to find the supposed cheap dal bhat was a bit more expensive than rumored, but still cheap for the all-you-can-eat service they provide, refilling your rice, dal, and assorted sides as you finish them. I decided to go with some fried veg momos, which are Nepali dumplings and one of my favorites next to popart and samosas. After eating our fill we decided it was time to return to the garden, standing once more at its front gates. High cement walls, wrapping around the entire expanse, keep in the garden’s serenity the sound of the outside busy street bouncing back and transporting you away from the city inside its safe barriers. The one main entrance was guarded by a ticket counter and a beautiful fountain and after paying the small fee of 200 rupees we wandered in.

The narrow walkway opened up to a large estate, similar to that of a palace, beautiful sculpted bushes framing clean white stone gazebos. On one side a terraced field was laid out, foam mattresses scattered here and there, all covered in the draped forms of relaxing Nepalis and tourists alike. The other side held a large fountain, beautiful lotuses and cattails sprouting up out of the water, koi swimming lazily in its depths. A large open restaurant stood just behind the fountain, its large white pillars supporting a rounded stone roof, palms casting shade on its outer-set tables. Lively stone elephants stood playfully on the steps leading up to the restaurant, perfect for a posed snap of Stephen. 

Wandering along the stone paths, we realized the true intent of the garden, what it had been repurposed into by the new generation. It was basically the established PDA spot for all of Kathmandu. A place where all of the couples came to be together, masses of them hidden in every alcove of the garden, behind every tree, on every bench, in every crevice. It is strange here, but in Nepali custom there is no public display of affection at all. Rarely do a man and a woman hold hands, and I’ve never seen anyone kiss in public before. It made sense though, its beauty and serenity was the perfect place for a date, making me miss Jake even more than normal.


One building in the garden held a gallery, showing pictures of what the garden looked like in the early 1900s, before its renovations. The difference was astounding. The buildings and statues crumbling and overgrown weeds running rampant. When they redid it they rearranged some things, expanding the terrace in one part, adding more secret love cubbies, repairing statues, one in particular from a Greek goddess to the Hindu goddess Lakshmi, the goddess of wealth and fortune. We relaxed in the garden for quite a while, talking in the shade of a great willow about the lives we would return to, and the trips we dream of taking in the future, and our time here. I left feeling revived and at peace, knowing that I would return to this place someday with someone I love, finding a cool corner to relax and unwind in.

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